A Compassionate Guide to Financial and Digital Account Management During Grief
We know just how much losing a loved one is an emotionally devastating experience. While grief is different for everyone, we have walked through this process first hand. Amidst intense grief, there are still crucial practical steps you must take to protect your loved one's legacy and secure their financial affairs. Most of these steps have to happen immediately.
We’ve prepared a comprehensive guide below that walks you through the critical actions to take in the first 24 hours, 48 hours, first week, and first month after a loss. Lean on us to walk you through this, so you can spend more time grieving, crying and taking care of yourself during this unpredictable time.

Immediate Actions: First 24 Hours
Emotional and Practical Prioritization
Contact immediate family members and friends
Ensure the executor is the primary point of contact for legal and financial matters
High-level review of the documentation and legal files left behind in Deadbook
Critical Financial First Steps
Secure Valuables: Remove any jewelry or sensitive information from the home and put it in a safe box or bring it back home with you to store in a secure location
Initial Financial Protection:
Contact bank to prevent unauthorized transactions
Freeze credit cards through the passwords left behind
If no passwords were left behind, call the credit card company and ask to place a death notice
Begin protecting against potential identity theft by freezing
Notify Employer and Insurance Company: It is critical to notify the boss or employer about the death and ask if they can help notify any insurance policies held through the employer. Claim processes can vary depending on the policy and provider.
Urgent Digital and Financial Management: First 48 Hours
Account Security
Digital Account Inventory: Ensure you have access or information for:
Email accounts
Social media profiles
Financial and bank websites
Cloud storage services
Digital Estate Management:
Begin process of memorializing or closing social media accounts
Platforms like Facebook and Instagram allow memorialization, but each platform has specific procedures, and not all platforms offer this option.
If you aren’t ready to close the platform yet and have access, you can post a notification about the loved ones passing and begin to save any photos.
Change the passwords for any emails and setup forwarding to the executor
Change the passwords for any bank and financial accounts
If you haven’t already called their financial advisor, do so asap and request that they freeze all accounts
What if they didn’t leave passwords?
Start by checking to see if they have a password storage account anywhere and get in contact
If you have access to their email via their phone or computer, try the reset password prompt
If you’re still at a loss, you can reach out to the companies directly but they will require a death certificate which could take weeks and sometimes even months
Financial Institution Notifications
Contact primary bank to:
Notify of death
Understand joint account implications
Prevent unauthorized transactions
Request multiple death certificates (10-15 copies recommended)
The exact number needed can vary based on individual circumstances, but multiple copies are often required for insurance claims, bank accounts, and other official matters.
First Month: Comprehensive Financial and Legal Management
Legal and Financial To-Dos
Probate Initiation:
Review will or trust in depth
Initiating probate by contacting an estate attorney after locating the will is a common step. However, not all estates require probate—this depends on state laws and the presence of a trust or jointly-owned assets.
If they didn’t leave a will or trust, the court will appoint an administrator
Notify Government Institutions of Passing:
Social Security Administration
Medicare/Medicaid
Veterans Affairs (if applicable)
Financial Account Management
Insurance and Benefit Claims:
Life insurance policy claims
Employer benefits
Retirement account notifications
Contact a CPA or Tax Professional
You’ll need a tax professional to help with the estate taxes
You’ll also need them to handle the deceased taxes from the previous year
First Year: Comprehensive Settlement and Transition
Detailed Financial Review
Complete Account Closure:
Close unnecessary credit cards
Transfer or close bank accounts
Update beneficiary information
Tax Considerations:
Obtain final tax documents
Consult tax professional about estate tax implications
Ongoing Digital Legacy Management
Final Digital Account Management:
Complete closure of unnecessary online accounts
Transfer meaningful digital assets
Secure family photos and digital memories
Additional Resources
Disclaimer: This guide provides general information. All this information should be stored in Deadbook if the deceased used it as a source. If not, we recommend contacting an estate planning attorney.
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